LOVE IS PATIENT.

I personally believe that love is the essence of life. Yes there are downs, and they get pretty ugly too , but during the ups .. it is wonderful .It is amazing how a simple word from someone you love can make you look at the world with different eyes .. you seem nicer, funnier .. a better person.. 

YOU DON'T SEARCH FOR LOVE. Period. Love comes when you least expect it. you just don't pick someone and say "She's pretty, I want her to be my girlfriend". If you think that way, I think it's better if you still enjoy your time being single. Get to know your self more, perhaps. It's so easy to say, you're like this and like that but sometimes, we're unconscious that we really don't who we really are in the first place and for that, we become self-centered and forget the beautiful things around since we are more concerned of how beautiful or wonderful we are. Being kind is never ever boring, I tell you. :) It's one of those personalities that can easily catch  attention and when you're kind, understanding comes along too and people like that are never difficult to love.

You just have to be patient because searching can land you lots of dead ends before the right one comes and it can be discouraging. You will know when it hits you and the other person would and should feel the same. It will be worth it if you take your time to do it right by not rushing and pushing for things but see how the chips fall in front of you when you decide to get to know a person. There is a risk with everything. So that's unavoidable but to be sure and have less of a chance to be devastated. TAKE YOUR TIME. People rush things and find them selves over sooner than they started and you think the way they act that they had been together for YEARS! Keep that in mind. Know the type of woman you want with the standards you have in place and pay attention to the woman that may have it and go with the flow of things but get out if things aren't right anymore!

However, love is a much more deeper feeling that not everyone knows about .. it is about understanding, forgiving and sacrificing; Nowadays, it is very hard for us to understand other people, since we are most of the time self-seeking and egoistic..we don't usually tend to forgive our friends when they do mistakes.. because we don't understand the notion of "everyone makes mistakes". Hardly someone is ready to sacrifice his or her happiness for someone else.. for a mother, or sibling ..or an aunt .. see how hard these acts are!...Well then when you love someone , you are ready to do these stuff for them in a blink.. you don't even think about it .. you just do it! 

On a side note.. we shouldn't fall into such a level without being sure of the choice we have made so we won't end up sacrificing our happiness for someone who is not even worth it. To me there is not such thing as love at first sight .. I believe in that "spark" or feeling that that person has something special .. but not love.. two people should first be friends, then best friends, then find the chemistry, then face problems together. . and if it works, then they might fall for each other.. I think in this way and if we all keep these things in consideration , the divorce/break-up rate will certainly decrease.. and again we just need to be patient, BELIEVE and BE SATISFIED :)