A friend's ex is courting me.

• "kuan trish, about sa friend naku nga girl dili man jud mi close..iyang ex nag dskarte saku now. wla ko nag xpect nga ma fall ko sa guy sa cge namu uban2x. then naa cyay gi make nga video pra saku  apila nlng nah trish.
• then una a2 kei naminaw ko sa side sa gurl kei nag share man xa naku. then minaw pd ko sa guy nga side. anah btaw nga story :))

  then, sala ba diay naku ma fall ko sa guy gwaps. Ang nakalain lang kay padungog2 ang akong amiga bitaw"

Knowing that she's not your close friend, there's nothing to be worried about. I mean, that's my case now. My boyfriend now is one of my friend's ex  and like you, we're not that close. It's just that, she's not like your so-called "friend" who does nothing but talks negative things at your back. Perhaps I should say, she's not a true friend. If and only if, that guy you're hanging out who happens to be your friend's ex, talks negative things about his ex then he's not the guy you expect him to be. Since you're already dating or hanging out with that guy, it's okay.  I mean sure there are some social issues that may come up, but the fact of the matter is, they broke up. Meaning they aren't together anymore and there is no claim on either one of them. Now granted certain waiting periods are generally a good idea. Distance and time make things less tangled. Still, in my mind, you're clear so long as they're broken up. Just be careful there's not any lingering feelings between the two of them. You don't wanna accidentally become a rebound. 

Now the thing is, you "think" that you're falling with this guy already. Now remember, sometimes it's not that we love the person already, it's the "FEELING" that we love. The feeling when he's treating you special, sends you sms 24/7, tells you to "take care, always".. so on and so forth. Styles of men nowadays are cliche so you have to make sure about this guy's intention towards you. Consider the things he normally does but more often than not, we don't care anymore if he's the bad guy in town if we fall  in love ‘cause we are blinded by the truth anymore. I understand that. In arelationship, there are only two people involved, so don't mind his ex anymore cause they're no longer together. If there is a need for you to know more about LOVE in a perspective different from yours, read THIS. 

It's not your fault if you're falling for that guy. I mean, he's giving you reasons for you to fall, right?  Don't mind his ex. Never as well, do what she does to you. We, women, are generally sensitive which cause us to fall easily but always put in your mind that WE ARE THE  BEARER OF OUR FEELINGS. It will always be your choice at the end of the day. Don't rush. Lead your heart and just surrender yourself to God.

In the mean time, I encourage you to read THIS and THIS. 

Till then, God Bless and good luck! :)